About "Koken" Steve Haycock
We all carry unique narratives within us, and for some, there's a pivotal moment that shapes our entire existence. This is the essence of an origin story.
For me, the journey from birth to twenty was about survival, navigating through less-than-ideal circumstances. However, the realization came that my beginning did not have to dictate my ending. By the age of twenty, I found the courage to step out on my own, making choices that would define the next two decades of my life as a quest to become the best version of myself.
The turning point came in my fortieth year, during a seemingly mundane conversation with my teenage son in our kitchen. His offhand remark about me being "half over" at forty hit deeper than expected, sparking a profound internal reflection. It led me to question what the remainder of my life would look like and how I could shape it into something meaningful.
Determined to redefine my life's trajectory, I sought the guidance of a friend and life coach, Christopher John Stubbs. Through a two-week introspective journey, I decided that the second half of my life would be dedicated to contribution, embracing the concept of 'Koken'—a Japanese term for contribution—as my guiding principle. This marked the beginning of a new chapter, one that would focus not just on self-improvement, but on making a positive impact on the world around me.
Your origin story might still be waiting to unfold. Whether you're ten or ninety, it's never too late to embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation. Like climbing Mount Kilimanjaro, life's challenges require preparation, commitment, and the willingness to take slow, steady steps towards your goals. Embrace the lessons learned from each step, from each victory and setback, and remember that your contribution, your 'Koken,' can start today.
Let this be the moment you decide to discover and live your contribution, to start your climb towards your personal summit. Whatever your goals or aspirations, remember that the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Start today, make a commitment to your future, and let your origin story unfold.